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     Look at the title and I think of there is a Disney world in Florida at the same time, whatever; it is a picture of a man is skim boarding in surfer. I like sea, because when I look at a deep and blue expanse of water, makes me a generous person, and feel cool in the summer.

     On the other hands, China is around land and America is around the ocean. Therefore, I think Chinese want to live tranquility life, it like the land pursues a level and natural life. Americans like to take a defiant attitude in their life, it like ocean that have wave life and enjoy challenge. It is the most different sides between Chinese and American life style. However, every coin has two sides. It looks like completely different life, but I think if the two kinds of way mix together. It would be perfect life which is  interesting, exciting and normal life.

Response to “Picture of surfers in Florida“

What is friendship? As I use the word, “friend” can be applied to a wide range of relationships to someone has known for few days in a new place, to a close associate, to a childhood playmate, to a man or woman, to a trusted confidant. A friendship may be superficial, casual, situational or deep and enduring. Though there are so many styles, we have to confess that each of which is related to a whole way of life. I always think about what is the most important thing in my life. Now I have the answer, it’s my family, friends and my lover. Because of them I can enjoy my happy life. There is the recognition that friendship, in contrast with kinship, implies freedom of choice. A friend is someone who chose and is chosen, related to this is the sense each friend gives the other of being a special individual. To this day, I have made many friends and had many beautiful and nice memories, we enjoyed each other’s companionship, as we grew up, our friendship became deeper and deeper, we talked about almost everything including our dreams, and our troubles. Life is death without a friend, a friend is easer lost than found. So enjoy the time when you are with your cherish friends.

     When you meet friends with a true heart, you will have successful human relations.

     Brain can’t control mind. Take sincerity with your friends, they must be around you and like to contact. May be it not go down with them, as time goes by passes your friends will feel your true heart and relate with you. The basic thing is bringing your sincerity, even you don’t know what kinds of person they are, how much do they like or hate you. If you close to other person with a true heart, the hate emotion will change to like. Don’t worry that how the other people think about you, whenever with a sincerity to meet other people, they will get near to you and get a friendship. In addition, this friendship or relation will keep long time.      However, some of the people cheat a person under pretense color of friendship, the first time or a few times you may looks like friends, but the lie will be finally exposed. It not tomorrow or next week, someday you will lose your friends.

     Bring your sincerity to your friends and keep your relation long time.

Do you usually tell a lie to the other people? When did you lie? How did you lie to the other people? Is it bad to tell a lie to someone? Tell a lie to other people for their profit, and hurt someone, it’s really bad. However, it depends on what kinds of situation did you lie. It means not all of the lies are bad and hurt someone. There is a white lie for people encouragement, development and feel relief. Sometimes the people have to lie in the life. For example, you break your promise, late in the class, go back to home late, and didn’t do your homework and so on. Do a white lie is not difficult, say to a woman:”You look beautiful.” Or “I like your shirts.” It still makes that people happy. Go back to home late and tell parents:”I don’t remember what time I come back was.” But look at fat people say:”You have a slender figure.” It feels the people displeasured, not a white lie. Some people make a monstrous lie to trust them. If you can’t make a sent this is a transparent falsehood foredoomed to do it. Lie like the truth.

Sometimes I always think about what kind of person I will be if I have much money. As the Bible tells us, worrying about money or anything else for that matter won’t do us any good. Many people think money is the root of all evil. Some of people can be changed to bad character after they got lots of money. May be at that moment, in their head, they aspire to be the man before. But in their heart, they have not been the man anymore. I think everyone want be a plutocrat. You can get many things that you have never imagined or solve many problems without breaking a sweat before with money. But when you are rich, you will have so many cares that you have no time to talk to one another, or to think of your souls, or to pray to God. For most of us, financial security is an elusive goal. No matter how much we have, it’s not enough. We must understand that what to make you happy is not the money but the feelings of spending. Earn all you can, save all you can, give all you can. Just don’t to be the slaver of money.

“Merry Christmas”, as you may know, has two meanings: happy and drunk. Though it is not so popular in China, most of people happy the time. I think Christmas is supposed to be a time to express our love and goodwill towards others. If you are like a large number of Korean, then your Christmas will be an alcoholic rather than a religious, occasion. Throughout the whole Christmas season, which stretches from early December to the end of the first week in January, you will spend hours drinking with friends, relatives and colleagues. Whether you are surrounded by the noisy friendliness of a pub or whether you are seated in the peaceful comfort of someone’s home, you will be sipping away on a drink. During a year, I am always up to my neck in study and work, so there is no time to meet my friends or relatives. But it is the best time when I can relax, cultivate my mind and perform acts of kindness for the persons whom I love. I’m sure that Christ would be very happy when he saw our happiness and celebrations are carried out in his name. I love Christ and I love Christmas too.

I have a group of friends just beside me. I met them in May that all most one year. We had fun in a small class which study English for taking IELTS like TOEFL Test, after one month later. We had agonizing classes at that time. We studies 6 hours per day from 9:00 to 3:00, sometimes the teacher lengthen time to teach us more and more. We have no break time, no weekends and lots of homework. Kinds of like this we studied whole of one month. If it more than one month, I could be crazy. However, we have the same purposes that want to go to America for study. And we encouraged each other to study hard.

The day we finished the test, who care how was going the test, no matter how was tired, our stress resentment flared up. We have fun all night in the other city. (I have some of pictures in Flickr, when we are playing)

 After we got visa one by one, we decided to meet had a party before we left our hometown. The first day we rent a house behind the mountain. We spend 24 hours to played games, climbed up the mountain, played water, ate barbeque, and went to club, bar, and so on. We planted to go to other place, but my friends ached all over and our voice changed husky.

I still contact with them after I came to US.  However, we split Now York and Los Angeles. We promise that we will meet in Disney Land. When I went to Now York, we meet and missed the other friends at the same time. We make a solemn promise that we will travel each state have fun together. When I was feel lonely, I called to them and got some energe. We met each other not long time, but we have strong relationship and gave me a good memory.

The high technology brings convenience and happiness to our life. A few of these are game player, computer, digital camera, etc. Especially, my favorite one is cell phone. All of the people have their own cell phone that more used than telephone in general. However, the people still live without cell phone before. Let’s go back to the past, people make a signal to tell something happened like smog or swish flog, it couldn’t dispatch any word. So the people didn’t know what did particular things happened. As time goes by passes, the people started to write a letter. But it need long time to get messages. And now the birth of cell phone is easy to contact with each other anytime, anywhere. In addition, the cell phone is upgrade by human. The cell phone from the basic function which could contact with the other people to versatile function which could play games, watch movies, online internet, with a camera, listen to the music and so on. Who knows cell phone is treasure for human until they got lost. I usually forgot my cell phone to put under my pillow. In that time I was irritated by cell phone.

Do you believe there is a ghost in the world?

I don’t know but after I watch scare movie, I feel something around me several days. And I know that it is at 12:00AM in the evening, I couldn’t leave me alone. Because every ghost come out at 12:00AM in Asia scare movie. I found an interesting thing in the Asia scare movie, it is the ghost fashion style and age is changing. In the long time the ghost is a woman who wears white long coat with long straight hair move very fast. As the passage of time, the ghost is kind of soul and make an abrupt appearance. Sometime the ghost becomes visible in the refrigerator, sometimes under your bed, but it usually in your back, there was coming blood when you shower or washing up. They are a student or the people who has a grudge against. I think America movie is not scare than Asia movie. My friend told me to watch scare movie can avoid the heat in the summer, good for health.

The people said, make a wish when you see meteor is falling down. It will be come ture..

There is a meteor for you.

If you have an ardent desire,

make a wish look at this a shooting star.

You will be accomplish your desire. 

Dreams come ture!!